I’m glad I speak Bisaya

In our dialect, Bisaya, we still use some Spanish words. Sadly, it’s slowly being forgotten and replaced by English.

Now that I am in a Spanish-speaking country, those Spanish words come in handy especially counting words! I can’t imagine how I would understand the taxi drivers if I don’t know their counting numbers. It would be frustrating on both sides. Maybe if given a year to stay here, I will be able to speak Spanish!

Anyway, it’s funny I get the feeling of speaking in Japanese every time I’m in a non-speaking country.

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I want a short vacation

Shaynna’s summer vacation is almost over and my plans of going home before school starts again is fading. I have gained two more days off because I worked on a holiday here and a Saturday. I have an option of receiving the overtime pay but I prefer the days off. When one is stretched to the limit, I suppose overtime pay is not that attractive anymore. But for now, I don’t have a budget for a round trip ticket home.

When I talked to her the last time, Shaynna did ask me if we could go on a picnic somewhere. I sure would love to grant that to her. Aside from that, I have promised to buy her an inflatable mini pool. I sure wish to give her more outdoor playground equipments but I know that she and her cousin will be very delighted to have a mini pool. The two little girls at home love taking a dip so much.

Soon, I’ll be able to post a photo of those two little girls with the huge smile on their faces wearing their swimsuits on that mini pool. I’m so excited already!

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Hola!

I did promise to myself that I will post as frequently as I can while I am in Mexico. But, I always finish work at 10PM! So all I can do for now, is to say hi to you and share a photo when I visited the Teotihuacan pyramids. It was really hot because we arrived at noon, but it was really amazing.




They were built thousand of years ago, yet they still exist, far more sturdy than steel buildings! Oh and please don’t ask me if I climbed the two largest pyramids. Well, I didn’t. I’m going to reveal something to you… I am scared of steep steps! Plus, at that time, I was alone, starving and dehydrated. And there were no railings! Just imagine what would happen to me and to other people if I collapse. *_*
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On the way to Mexico!

It’s been more than a month since my boss asked me if it is OK for me to go to Mexico. Of course, I said yes, despite the fear of facing a different kind of challenge (facing our project’s customers). I was told that it was urgent so I immediately headed down to the Mexican Embassy to apply for a Mexican Visa. Three working days later, I got my visa. That was two days before the planned flight. And on that day, I was told to delay my trip for two weeks.

I thought it might become like that one time when I was told to go to France then it got canceled. I waited for the confirmation from my boss while being really busy because Mexican customers are coming over to Singapore for a visit. Then last Saturday, I finally got the go signal but I still had doubts.

Now, here I am in the Sky Lounge waiting for the boarding time. Finally I am going to Mexico! But I have to go through Amsterdam first because it is only in Amsterdam or in Paris that Filipinos don’t need a transit visa.

Because of the stress I’ve been experiencing these past few days, I’ll definitely have a good rest in the plane later on.

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Travelling Meme

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I miss doing those blog memes so here it is, after 3 years, I think. Sadly, most of my blogger friends have stopped blogging so I cannot tag anyone anymore.

How old were you when you first travelled?
According to my parents, when I was less than a year old. But as far as I can remember, it was when I was 6 years old.

What is your favourite form of travelling: car, bus, train, or plane?
By train. My longest train ride was from Osaka to Nagoya which was 3~4 hours. I definitely have to try longer train ride in Japan (from Kyushu to Hokkaido), Europe, and China.

Where did you go on your first road trip?
Road trip with family when I was a teenager, to our relatives in Zamboanga del Sur.

Where did you go on your first bus ride?
To Cagayan de Oro City which is about 3 hours from my hometown.

Where did you go on your first train ride?
My first train ride was in Manila, to the station closest to the Rizal Park.

Where did you go on your first plane ride?
When I was 14 years old, to Manila with my family.

Motion sickness? Treatment of choice?
Rarely. But I always bring aromatic medicated oil, particularly White Flower.

Where would you like to go that you haven’t been?
My list is too long. Can I say everywhere except the places I’ve already set foot on? (Paris, Lisbon, Sydney and Malaysia).
Also these places in my own country which I haven’t been to: Boracay, Palawan, Camiguin, Davao, Ilocos, Batanes

Where would you like to go back to?
Sydney and other parts of France (I was only able to visit Paris).

Travelling alone or with someone?
Travelling alone is just too lonely and it’s hard to get a photo of yourself! So I prefer to travel with someone. But travelling with 3 more can be hard as well.

Your ultimate travelling dream?
Europe by train and cruise ship.

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My thoughts on our apartment’s floor plan

When I was in Japan, I shared the apartment with two more ladies. Here in Singapore, I am sharing the 3-bedroom apartment with a couple and another lady. I can’t afford to get the master’s bedroom so I got one of the common rooms, which I got so comfortable with.

To give you an idea of our apartment’s layout, I created the floor plan below. I find those online designer too troublesome, so I used OpenOffice instead.



My bedroom is the one labeled “Common Room 2″ but note that it doesn’t have a door to directly access the common toilet. I share this toilet/bath with the other lady and I have to go through the kitchen first to get there. I don’t mind taking the long way even in the middle night, but what really bothers me the most is the location of the toilet.

It is really too embarrassing to do your thing (a.k.a, No. 2) when someone is cooking or doing the laundry! There were many times when I had to wait it out until a housemate is done cooking or done with the laundry just like what I am going through while I’m writing this and at the same time praying they’ll finish cooking real soon. Forgive me for making this post a bit gross.

Also notice the laundry area. That’s where we hang our clothes as well, yet it is adjacent to the stove! So most of the time I do my laundry at night, then make sure to wake up early to collect my clothes before my housemates start to cook. Otherwise, the clothes will have the fried onion smell. *_*

Our previous apartment had almost the same layout. The common toilet and the laundry area were also adjacent to the kitchen. I suppose all the other HDB apartments are laid-out in the same way? I will never ever put the common toilet of my future home in the same location.

FYI. my housemates are not done cooking yet. It’s been more than an hour. *_*
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My Good Friday, then and now

My grandmother or “lola” used to stay with us, so I basically grew up being taught with the things she believed in – Catholicism mixed with old Filipino beliefs.

I still remember being dragged by my lola to all the church services she attended to during Holy Week. I was with her when she prepared all those coconut leaves crucifixes for Palm Sundays, although I never learned how to make those. I was with her at the choir benches during The Last Supper masses. On Good Friday morning, I helped her prepare binignit (warm root crop and fruit stew). In the afternoon, I was with her participating in the pabasa.

When she went to live with my aunt in Cebu, those traditions stayed with us. If we don’t participate in the pabasa, then we turn on our radio to hear it. I grew up expecting to see The Ten Commandments or old Filipino movies or dramas showcasing moral values on TV from Holy Thursday to Black Saturday. We strictly didn’t eat red meat and no upbeat music can be heard anywhere. It was either our neighbors were also listening to the pabasa, or just deafening silence. I got to experience this until my college days as I didn’t take any summer class.

Then I went to Japan where the Holy Week is just like any ordinary week. Although I tried to do abstinence and more time for prayer and meditation.

When I came to Singapore, I was a bit surprised that there are many Catholic Churches and Good Friday is a public holiday! I managed to attend church services on Holy Week, but this year, I feel that I failed. For one, I just ate red meat because it’s what I only have in the ref and I am too lazy to go out.

I am not saying that every Catholic has to do what my grandmother usually does on Holy Week. I respect each person’s beliefs. But this was how I was brought up and I feel uneasy if I don’t follow what I used to do. It’s just hard if you are trying to do it all alone.

Maybe I should go home during the Holy Week next year.

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The hair dryer incident

This is the second part of my series of posts about my trip to Kuala Lumpur in August 2011.

It was not hard finding the hotel. We just took the MRT from the drop-off point, then got off at Medan Tuanku station. The hotel was about a block away from the station.

Before we went out, I decided to take a shower first. Yes, the bathroom was old but the water was warm enough.

I was delighted that the hotel provides hair dryer. It was quite old but I tried it anyway. A few seconds after I turned it on, smoke came out of it. I tried to turn it off but it wouldn’t just stop. I couldn’t pull out the plug either because it was connected directly to the power source! A few seconds later, there was a small fire in its motor! I wanted to turn off the main switch of the room but I couldn’t put the dryer down because the room was carpeted! My roommate was taking a shower so she couldn’t hear me when I called her out. Thankfully, our friend from the next bedroom came in so I asked him to turn off the main switch for me.

I maintained my calm during the ordeal but it left me shaking with fear thinking what would have happened if I wasn’t able to turn it off!

The room was filled with smoke and the smell of burnt plastic. It was surprising the fire alarm didn’t go off. I reported the incident to the receptionist and I was told that they will send someone to fix it. Nobody came so we just left for sightseeing, trusting that they will fix it. My roommate had to go through shower without any lights on!

When we came back, we were told that the problem had been fixed. But then I heard the circuit breaker trip when I turned on the room’s main switch. Later we were informed that it also caused tripping of circuit breakers in other rooms! There was no way to fix the problem quickly so we were transferred to another room.

It was an unforgettable experience, indeed! At that time, I told myself to never book a room at Prescott Inn again!.

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The search for a gown begins

One of the things I love about working here in Singapore is that most companies hold dinner and dance parties each year. I don’t wear makeup even to work, but at least once a year, I love to doll myself up.

In our company, we have a different theme for each year. In 2009, it was “A blast from the past“, 2010 was “Shanghai Night” and last year was “Masquerade“. This year, it’s “Star Awards Night“!

You read my mind! Angelina Jolie’s gown and her leg-baring Oscars pose. I definitely cannot wear that kind of dress nor do the same pose, but I am planning to wear something long this year. I’m too excited that I have started searching the web for great designs. These are my favorites so far:

From JenJen House:


I really love these dresses but shipping might cost more than the gown!

This is from Cupido Gowns and Dresses here in Singapore:

I don’t think I can afford to buy it but maybe I can rent it out.

I found these somewhere but I failed to take note of the website:

I strongly feel like wearing a one-shoulder dress to the big night but I have to do something about my arms. It is impossible to become as thin as these models. But I don’t want my arms to look too fat in the photos. The party will be on May 18th so I have a month to do something about it. Wish me luck!

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Goosebumps from start to end

Jessica Sanchez did it again! Had goosebumps as I listened to her rendition of Sweet Dreams. Too bad I was not able to catch it on TV. All I can say is… W.O.W!

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First time in Malaysia

This is the first part of my series of posts about my trip to Kuala Lumpur in August 2011.

Two years after I’ve arrived here in Singapore, I finally got to visit one of its closest neighbors, Malaysia! Going to Malaysia is one of the cheapest weekend getaways from Singapore.

I went to Kuala Lumpur with two friends and I was the one who arranged everything:

1. The bus tickets

BusOnlineTicket.com is one of the websites offering a wide selection of coach companies. For this trip, I chose Star Mart Express because it’s one of the cheapest and the schedule was what I wanted.

It was just a regular weekend so we were able to get a round-trip ticket for 60SGD. You can also choose your seats online free of charge! There are 3 seats in each row and I chose all the (lone) window seats for all of us.

The bus has no entertainment console so it’s good to have something to lessen boredom during the 5~ hours trip. I had no tablet pc nor a smart phone so I had no choice but to sleep!

Star Mart has the phrase “Massage Coach” written on the bus but the massage feature is no longer working. It could get too cold inside the bus so it would help to bring something to keep you warm. Someone did try to ask the driver to increase the temperature but the driver just shrugged it off.

2. The accommodation

I found Prescott Inn Kuala Lumpur – Medan Tuanku in Agoda.com. It is located very close to the Medan Tuanku MRT station.

We were able to get a room for just 35SGD. It was a charming inn, but old age is really showing in its bathroom among other things. Overall, it was a great bargain. However, I encountered an unfortunate event in the hotel (to post later).

3. The Map
I don’t think it is safe to use the navigation tools in your smart phones in Kuala Lumpur so go get a map! I am not the kind of person who prepares everything for the trip. As long as I have the accommodation and the transportation, I’m good to go. We only bought the Kuala Lumpur map at the mall close to the drop-off point. We got the cheapest, which was about 5SGD, so it was not as detailed as I wanted it to be.

My advise: add about 2SGD and you’ll get a better map

4. Malaysian Ringgit

We had some money changed at the bus station in Singapore. However, I noticed that the exchange rate in Malaysia is higher than in Singapore. You still need some Ringgits though, in case you need to buy something during the 15-30 minutes stops on the way to Kuala Lumpur.

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How to look younger?

I came across this article entitled Women are ‘at their most beautiful’ at 31. I thought it’s in the mid-20′s? However, I would like to think so. After all, I’ve just turned 32.

On the other hand, what I’m more interested in right now is how to make myself look younger. I’m afraid constant stress is starting to have its effects on me. Here are steps that I aim to do.

1. Get a good haircut
Going to a hair salon here in Singapore is really expensive. I’d rather always keep my hair in a pony tail then get a haircut when I’m in the Philippines. However, due to flu, I was not able to visit a hair salon when I went home last December. And for the past few months, I found my waist-length hair so long and so unruly.
Here’s how I looked 3 days ago. This was even after I brushed it well and pinned it up.


I normally let my hair down in the morning because I usually don’t have time to blow it dry. Just imagine how unkempt I would look when I get to the office! There was even one time when a male colleague asked me if I was running late and if I didn’t have time to comb my hair!
I finally visited a salon this afternoon, had a haircut and hair treatment. I don’t like the fringes, but it is high time I cover my big forehead. So, what do you think? To be honest, I couldn’t see much difference but my head definitely feels a lot lighter.

2. Lose weight
I have noticed that when I was bigger than I am now, I looked older. So maybe shedding off a few pounds would probably make me appear younger. Looking at the photos of some highschool batchmates who have gained more than 20 pounds, this seems to be their case as well. I haven’t attained my target weight but I am working on it. I don’t aim to be skinny, though.

3. Sleep at least 8 hours and sleep early!
Some people look refreshed even with 6 hours. But in my case, if I sleep less than 8 hours, then I’ll get puffed eye bags, dark circles under my eyes (just like in the photos above), and a nasty headache. This is quite hard considering that I do a lot of Facebook refresh internet-related stuff before I go to sleep. But I must impose self-discipline.

4. Lead a healthy lifestyle
Exercise, healthy food, and item #3. Been trying to do this for years but I always find myself at stage 1, still trying to convince myself to do these.

5. Get rid of eyeglasses
I’ve been contemplating about trying Lasik surgery. However, even if I do have the money to undergo the surgery, is their a 100% guarantee that there’s no long-term bad effect? Maybe for now, I’ll just settle for contact lenses. But I cannot wear contact lenses if I lack sleep. So this leads me back to step #3.

One of these days, I’ll be able to faithfully follow these steps (especially steps 2-5). Gotta act before it’s too late!

In the end, it all comes down to how you take care of yourself and how you see yourself as…

“What a person says about you does not define who you are.” - Joel Osteen

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